What Controls You?

Who’s in control?.. 

The need for control is part of our human nature. 

The extremes we take it to and the illusions that we and others feel we have are usually where we have our struggles. 

For instance, Miss Tami, Miss Kai and our 2 cats allow me to think I am in control in our home. 

Luckily for me, I have seen through this illusion and get to enjoy my quiet corner of the living room, or as I call it my “command center”! 

Another example I love to share is to challenge folks to try and herd cats! 

How’s that control working out for you?!? 

The fact I have learned the hard way over the years is that there are only 3 things I am in absolute control of; my attitude, my thoughts, and my behavior. 

All of the rest are driven by people, places, and things. 

The good news is that when I learned that I could turn it over to God, I no longer needed to allow the chaos of people, places, and things to affect my thoughts and behaviors… 

Check your experience… 

“All of us felt at times that we were regaining control, but such intervals -- usually brief -- were inevitably followed by still less control, which led in time to pitiful and incomprehensible demoralization.” Big Book pg 30 

Lord, let us give up the need to control things outside of our attitudes, thoughts, and behaviors, AMEN. 

“For you are a slave to whatever controls you.” 2 Peter 2:19 

Have a blessed day y’all! 

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Watch Your Tongue!

Watch your tongue… 

It’s that time of year when we gather together with family, friends, and others to fellowship, celebrate, and spend time with others that we may not see that often.  

Hopefully these times are full of fun, love, and create more warm memories. 

This can also be a time where our petty differences, resentments, and unchecked emotions can try to take the stage in front of the captive audience gathered. 

Please take this as a suggestion and guard your words!  

Our self-will can override our spiritual connection during times of stress and anxiety leading to all sorts of words and actions that we later regret. 

Hopefully you can direct those nasty words to stay inside your head and not come rolling off your tongue. 

Remember the Holy Spirit lives within you and can give you grace, peace, and comfort during these times IF you let Him…

Check your experience… 

“Patience, tolerance, understanding and love are the watchwords.” Big Book pg 118   

Lord, let our words be driven from love and kindness and not from motives of hurt and pain, AMEN.  

“So also the tongue is a small thing, but what enormous damage it can do, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is always ready to pour out its deadly poison. Sometimes it praises our heavenly Father, and sometimes it breaks out into curses against men…” James 3:5-9  

Have a blessed day y’all!  

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Humility not Humiliation

 Humility is way different than humiliation…. 

Humility is a good virtue that allows us to acknowledge others and respect their dignity, talents, and opinions. 

Humility is not weakness; it’s a spirit of self-examination that through seeking and doing God’s will prevents us from becoming selfish and arrogant. 

Humiliation is a painful emotion that we feel when we’ve been shamed. 

It’s a negative response that usually comes as a consequence of our own selfish actions. 

I used to confuse the 2 words, I think a lot of corporate America still does. 

I have learned that a humble person is a powerful person who has a firm relationship with God, self, and others. 

A humiliated person tends to be isolated and suffer from their own actions based on self-centered fears, greed, and pride.

How do you see yourself?..

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Check your experience… 

“Belief in the power of God, plus enough willingness, honesty and humility to establish and maintain the new order of things, were the essential requirements.” Big Book pg 13 

Lord, let us humble ourselves to be strengthened and fortified by our Word, grace, and promises. AMEN. 

“If you are wise and understand God’s ways, prove it by living an honorable life, doing good works with the humility that comes from wisdom. But if you are bitterly jealous and there is selfish ambition in your heart, For jealousy and selfishness are not God’s kind of wisdom. For wherever there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there you will find disorder and evil of every kind.” James 3: 13-16 

Have a blessed day Y’all! 

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